THE WORKBOOK EVERY SCHOOL COUNSELOR NEEDS
I often hear, “Why aren’t kids learning life skills at school?” The reality is complex, as some schools can impart these skills while others struggle due to limited resources and insufficient staffing. School counselors teach life skills as part of their curriculum; however, despite the American School Counseling Association’s (ASCA) recommended student-to-school-counselor ratio of 1:250,…
TWO THINGS EFFECTIVE PARENTS CONSTANTLY DO
On the podcast “What in the Shibal?!” with Soogia and Ed Choi, Choi shared a fascinating childhood story about his mother’s ingenious methods to prevent him from watching television while she was working. The rule was simple: no TV when his mother wasn’t home. Choi would push the limits, watching until the very last moment before her…
Talking to Kids About Sex: Navigating Conversations and Helpful Resources
This post contains affiliate links. See my disclosure page for more information. Teaching kindergartners as a school counselor for the first time was like stepping into a whirlwind of surprises. Little did I know, a seemingly innocent choice of words would turn my well-intentioned lesson into hilarious chaos. Instead of asking, “What questions do you have about…
10 Books That Help Kids Learn How to Be Good Friends
A great list of books that deal with friendship skills and embracing who you are! This post contains affiliate links. See my disclosure page for more information. My daughter came home from school one day last year and shared that one of her friends had kept another friend’s secret, so she knew she was a good and…
Don’t Wait Until it’s Too Late: Teaching Kids About Body Autonomy & Consent
I only recommend products I have found to be of great value and are worth reading or using. If you buy something through one of the links below, I may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. When is the right time to teach body safety? I don’t recall ever being explicitly taught…
Unlock Your Students’ Creative Potential With This Unique Tool
I only recommend products I have found to be of great value and are worth reading or using. If you buy something through one of the links below, I may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. I’m always searching for counseling tools, and I recently discovered the Buddha Board on my most…
5 Tips for Becoming a More Effective School Counselor
This post contains affiliate marketing. I only recommend products I have found to be of great value and are worth reading or using. If you buy something through one of the links below, I may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. (Legit. I went through my own Amazon list to make this…
The Ultimate Elementary School Counseling Toy
I’ve had a lot of favorite school counseling toys over the years, but there’s one that stands above the crowd. If you want to learn how children interact with their parents, siblings, grandparents, and friends, you need to invest in some dollhouse dolls. Through these dolls, you’ll discover how the child you’re working with sees…
Ten Must-Have Books for Your Elementary School Counseling Office
This post contains affiliate links. See my disclosure page for more information. We’ve talked about the games, fidgets, and decor you’ll need for your counseling office, but have we talked about all the books you’ll need? Someday soon, I’ll write about the books you’ll need to enhance your craft, but for now, let’s go over some basic…
How to Get Professional Designs Without Spending a Fortune
This post contains affiliate links. See my disclosure page for more information. When I was a high school counselor, we had a tight budget, so I took on a senior intern whose sole job was to create all the media I needed to support the school counseling program–flyers, social media posts, infographics, brochures, and so much more.…
The Best Books for New Counselors, Teachers, & Parents
Sometimes I think the only way I can learn is through the struggle of figuring it out myself, but let’s save you a decade and get you to some of the best books if you’re just starting in the counseling field, teaching profession, or you’re about to bring home your first little bundle of joy. …
Elementary School Counseling Lesson Plan Standards Match
When I started as an elementary school counselor, all I wanted was some sort of clue as to what the heck was going on. Seriously. I didn’t have a mentor or any materials or guidance from the previous counselor, so I had to learn everything the hard way. I observed a few classes and then…
15 Must-Have School Counseling Items on a $100 Budget
This post contains affiliate links. See my disclosure page for more information. Budgets are tight, but we still have a job to do. I’m going to give you the best school counseling must-haves-list for under $100. These are items that I have personally bought and find myself using again and again. The entire list of my favorite…
How Can You Protect Kids on Youtube?
It’s possible that everyone already knows this and I’m just late to the party. But friends, did you know that you can share a YouTube link with students that’s free from ads and external clutter? It’s true! There are so many incredible clips available on YouTube. I regularly use videos to teach social cues and…
How To Become a School Counselor: 7 Things You Need to Know
How Do I Become a School Counselor? Since I started working as a school counselor many years ago, my mother has told me countless times that her “school counselor didn’t do that.” And she’s not wrong; mine didn’t do “that” either. This job has changed a lot over the years. School counselors do a lot…
Advice for Teaching Online & In-Person
Let’s be clear, there is no magic bullet to teaching both in-person and online, but I do have some experience with this effort now and can give some feedback on what has and has not worked. Let’s start with the dumpster fires areas for improvement, and then we’ll move on to the good stuff. Let’s…
4 Personal Body Safety Books You Need to Add Your Shelf Today
I don’t recall ever being explicitly taught as a child that I could tell an adult “no” if I was uncomfortable with their touch. Chatting with a friend recently, she shared how she was tickled until it hurt, and her family all thought it was hysterically funny. Many of us have experienced tickles and hugs…
School Counseling Climate Survey
Have you ever walked into a school building and immediately felt welcomed and invited? How about the opposite? The schools’ culture permeates throughout the building, but it’s often nebulous; you can’t quite put your finger on it, but you feel it, and you usually know within minutes if it has good or bad vibes. What…
You’ve Never Found an Easier Way to Schedule Appointments
I have gone through every type of calendar possible to schedule my meetings, and I have to tell you that I think I have finally found the needle in the proverbial haystack. I tried using google docs, sign up sheets, sign-in bar codes, calendar invites, and still spent an excessive amount of time and energy…
Tools to Counsel and Teach ESL Students
I have found myself in so many classes this year with students who speak zero English. I desperately want to teach and work with these kids, and I’ve been practicing my Spanish using Pimsleur. However, I’m still not proficient enough to communicate any of my lesson material, not to mention that many speak a language…
Get to Know Your Students Activity
Getting to know your students can be tricky–especially when your caseloads are out of proportion to recommended ratios, and you’re teaching virtually. But we all know that building relationships with your students is critical for us to become their “people” when they need us. However, we don’t always know what kind of vibes we’re putting…
How Do You Adapt Lessons for ESL Students?
I attended a training a few years ago where the speaker gave us a math worksheet in Chinese and then instructed the group (all native English speakers) in Chinese to complete the worksheet. Friends, I am a grown woman who has solid coping skills, and I was incredibly frustrated and overwhelmed. I could see why…
These are the Tech Tips That Will Change Everything
I’m surprised by the folx out there who still say that “TikTok is for kids.” If you still think that, I’m about to change your mind with this little post about implementing tech tips I learned from TikTok into my school counseling practice. It has been transformational! I’ve learned quick hacks to speed up my…
Teaching in a Pandemic: Your Mental Health
I got a text the week before school started asking, “Do school counselors also counsel teachers?” No, no, we don’t, but that doesn’t mean your mental health doesn’t matter to me. I’m more worried about teachers right now than ever before. The amount of stress and ambiguity they are under is enough to send a…
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Elishia Basner, M.S., is a school counselor, speaker, writer, and parenting coach. She has taught people of all ages and backgrounds the principles and practices of emotional healing for 13 years. Elishia helps people develop attitudes, behaviors, and habits that promote a life full of growth and self-discovery.
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